1.) I want us to spend a lot of time with our respective families.

2.) It is ok not to like each other's parents or other family members.

3.) I believe couples should spend most of their time together.

4.) A spouse should be permitted to have personal time and friends of their own.

5.) I believe all important decisions should be made together.

6.) I expect us to share in all of the household responsibilities.

7.) I need to control the money in a marriage.

8.) We should put our money together in a joint account.

9.) I want children (at least 2).

10.) I want us to be sexually adventurous.

11.) Religion is very important to me and we should attend religious services.

12.) I think we should compromise on most things.