How do you feel in bed with your partner? Great and completely at ease and natural? Or rejected, confused, unwanted, undesirable, pressured, guilty, anxious or misunderstood? On opposite sides of the mattress, emotions can run high. Especially when partners realize that,...

Some relationships reflect differences in expression, ability, or effort. It’s possible to view these differences just as brief chapters in your larger, mutually loving story. However, there are other relationships which remain unbalanced for too long and aren’t fair; ever. In those...

The promise of “good sex” always gets attention. You want it. Your partner wants it. And, perhaps, your relationship hasn’t experienced much of it lately. Perhaps you’re still trying to experience it for the first time. Maybe you're even...

So you know what you want in bed and you know who you want to do it with. Great. At least it should be great. But somehow, what you want sexually never really seems to happen the way you think it...

Blow me a kiss from across the room Say I look nice when I'm not Touch my hair as you pass my chair Little things mean a lot Give me your arm as we cross the street Call me...

Sex and desire are vital parts of a fulfilling relationship.What happens when your relationship suffers from unrealistic lovemaking myths? Well, a lot can happen, and very little of it is good. Dwindling desire. Stifled satisfaction. Collapsing connection. And that’s just the...

Type in “a better sex life” on your computer or smartphone. Your search engine is likely generous with responses. Some helpful, some not, and some downright disturbing. But the thousands of listed blog posts, sex therapy articles, studies, and magazine-style...

Relationships experience an intrinsic ebb and flow. Much like the Miami tide, challenges in a partnership flow in and out rhythmically. A successful couple can manage challenges and conflicts while maintaining the connection to keep a healthy balance. Even a successful...

Many people believe that having great sex should happen naturally. However, that’s not always true. While sex is a natural and basic human function, establishing a satisfying sex life with your partner can prove challenging. Aside from the general anatomy of...

Unlike other partnerships, marriage is multidimensional and ever-evolving. Maintaining closeness can be challenging. Often, couples who attend marriage counseling with me in Miami, find out what couples everywhere know as well:  intimacy is routinely threatened by the stresses of everyday...