You have learned that your partner has had an affair. It is a hurt unlike any you have ever experienced. How do you handle it?
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Once an affair has been discovered, the aftermath can be very...
It was a major choice, but you’ve decided to accept the fact that your partner was unfaithful and want to try rebuilding your relationship together.
Your spouse is happy you’ve made that decision but hopes you will recover quickly.
You realize...
If you look up the term “Codependent" in a diagnostic manual or psychiatric handbook you will not find it listed as a psychiatric disorder or condition.
In fact, you will not find it listed on the National Institute of Mental...
Couples often come to my office for counseling when they are just about at the end of their patience with each other.
They have either been arguing uncontrollably, been distant and withdrawn or perhaps just tired and bored with their...
Remember when you couldn’t wait to lavish the one you loved with a million kindnesses, big and small?
Once upon a time, the idea of being compassionate, thoughtful and self-sacrificing was not difficult. It wasn’t an imposition. It wasn’t an...
No couple is immune to tough times, especially in today's world.
Every relationship suffers some level of stress, loss, transition, upset, and negativity.
What is your marriage facing? Poor health, job or a career crisis? The loss of a parent or...
Everyone makes mistakes. It is an old cliché but completely true for all of us.
When dealing with a spouse or partner, however, the question becomes how bad of a mistake has been made and whether the person who made...
There are many statistical predictors of divorce in an unhealthy relationship, such as: if your parents were divorced you stand a 40% chance of getting divorced; or if there are significant money problems and large debt, your marriage runs...
Stalemates happen.
You and your partner have talked an issue to death.
You’ve made your case. They’ve made theirs.
So you say the words. “Alright, let’s just agree to disagree.”
Seems like a good idea. It’s clearly a happier alternative to escalating the...
Sexual betrayal can cause shame, sadness, and mistrust in a relationship.
It is also quite common. According to one study, roughly 30% to 60% of all married individuals in the United States will engage in infidelity at some point.
When an...
